Source: How Your Mind Works – Lion’s Roar
Excellent description of how we piece together our concept of who we are.
Directing Attention Skillfully
Luang Por Pasanno • April 2005
Learning how to meditate—how to develop the mind—is learning how to direct attention in a skillful way. Whatever we direct our attention toward becomes our reality. If we like, we can direct attention to all the chaos in the world or to the chaos of our own personal dramas. But we don’t have to do that. We can instead direct our minds to contemplate our experiences as merely form, feeling, perception, mental formations, and consciousness. We can direct our attention in other skillful ways as well—toward objects that soothe the mind and conduce to peace and clarity. It’s simple: We can incline the mind toward what is wholesome or what is troublesome. The choice we make is up to each one of us.
Taken from Abhayagiri Web Book, “Beginning Our Day, Vol 1.”